waiting....

so my potential e-harmony connection responded to my questions and i liked what he had to say. then we progressed to the next step in the process: "must haves/can't stands." i sent mine but haven't heard back in a few days....hmmm....

well here they are in case you are curious. i can't believe i've given them 7 months of my hard earned time and money and i haven't met a single person!!

You sent your Must Haves and Can't Stands on July 17 2006, 09:46AM PT

Must Haves:
Intellect......	I must have a partner who is bright and can share my understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues.
Sense of Humor......	I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life.
Emotionally Healthy......	I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy, and able to share a stable life with someone else.
Family......	I must have someone who shares my desire to have or adopt children.
Tolerant......	I must have a partner who is able to hear and appreciate divergent viewpoints.
Self-Confident......	I must have a partner who knows and believes in himself/herself throughout life's ups and downs.
Communicator......	I must have someone who is good at talking and listening.
Emotionally Generous......	I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
Affectionate......	I must have someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection.
Chemistry......	I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to my partner.

Can't Stands:
Anger......	I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
Lying......	I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.
Rude......	I can't stand someone who is belittling, impatient or hateful to people in any situation.
Extremely Shy......	I can't stand someone who is so shy that they cannot open up and share with me.
Poor Hygiene......	I can't stand someone who is not clean.
Racist......	I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.
Cheating......	I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
Addictions......	I can't stand someone who currently suffers from addictions.
Infidelity......	I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship.
Pessimism......	I can't stand someone who always sees the glass as half empty.